{"id":2417,"date":"2025-03-19T07:52:27","date_gmt":"2025-03-19T07:52:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=2417"},"modified":"2025-03-19T07:52:27","modified_gmt":"2025-03-19T07:52:27","slug":"i-didnt-feel-the-slightest-bit-sorry-for-ruining-my-sons-wedding-am-i-incorrect-to-think-this-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=2417","title":{"rendered":"I didn\u2019t feel the slightest bit sorry for ruining my son\u2019s wedding! Am I incorrect to think this way"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A mother shared her story of ruining her son\u2019s wedding. She doesn\u2019t regret anything, but she wants to know if her actions were justifiable or if she did something wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Specifically, her son Mike had a prior marriage. Tommy is the boy he and his ex-wife welcomed into the world.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5847\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8415.png?resize=430%2C322&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 430px) 100vw, 430px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8415.png?w=430&amp;ssl=1 430w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8415.png?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"430\" height=\"322\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Tommy had Down syndrome from birth, and Mike abandoned him and his spouse not long after. Most importantly, he declined to speak to or see his now-ex-wife or son. He never gave the boy anything.<\/p>\n<p>When Mike\u2019s mother found out that he was taking a second wife, she thought it was time to take action because her family was upset with him for abandoning his son.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5850\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?resize=800%2C534&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?resize=1024%2C683&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8416.png?w=1536&amp;ssl=1 1536w\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>The mother only wanted Mike to take care of Tommy; she didn\u2019t really care if he decided to have a new family.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, on the day of Mike\u2019s wedding, right before he and his future wife said \u201cI do,\u201d Tommy\u2019s mother carried him into the church and revealed the truth about Mike\u2019s mistreatment of his son.<\/p>\n<p>Mike\u2019s fianc\u00e9e was perplexedly listening. She was clearly in shock at finding out the truth about the man she was going to marry.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5848\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8417.png?resize=430%2C286&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 430px) 100vw, 430px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8417.png?w=430&amp;ssl=1 430w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8417.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"430\" height=\"286\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>She and her family exited the church shortly after she threw her bouquet at him. Shortly after, Mike\u2019s mother departed, and the next day, her cousin Liam informed her that Mike had become enraged and had displayed a range of emotions in front of the bewildered guests.<\/p>\n<p>Mike\u2019s mother tweeted, \u201cNow I\u2019m not sure if my choice to ruin the wedding was the right one.\u201d She clarified that although she didn\u2019t regret the wedding\u2019s cancellation, her goal was to teach her son a lesson and force him to accept responsibility for Tommy\u2019s conduct rather than to wreck the event in the first place.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5849\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8418.png?resize=430%2C286&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 430px) 100vw, 430px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8418.png?w=430&amp;ssl=1 430w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.selflovers.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/IMG_8418.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"430\" height=\"286\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>The lady stated, \u201cI think it was important to bring attention to how bad Mike\u2019s neglect was, even though it may seem like I went too far.\u201d<br \/>\nShe closed by asking Redditors AITA, \u201cI hope this interruption wakes him up so he can change his ways and be there for Tommy as a dad.\u201d What do you think about this?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A mother shared her story of ruining her son\u2019s wedding. She doesn\u2019t regret anything, but she wants to know if her actions were justifiable or if she did something wrong. Specifically, her son Mike had a prior marriage. Tommy is the boy he and his ex-wife welcomed into the world. Tommy had Down syndrome from &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2418,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2417","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2417","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2417"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2417\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2419,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2417\/revisions\/2419"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2418"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2417"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2417"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2417"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}