{"id":2453,"date":"2025-03-19T12:44:32","date_gmt":"2025-03-19T12:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=2453"},"modified":"2025-03-19T12:44:32","modified_gmt":"2025-03-19T12:44:32","slug":"every-time-we-go-out-to-eat-my-boyfriend-conveniently-forgets-his-credit-card-so-i-end-up-paying-for-everyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=2453","title":{"rendered":"Every time we go out to eat, my boyfriend conveniently \u201cforgets\u201d his credit card, so I end up paying for everyone."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A woman had been dating her boyfriend for a while when she noticed something happening every time they went out to eat. Eventually, she got fed up with it and decided to do something about how she felt.<\/p>\n<p>A 32-year-old woman had been dating her 39-year-old boyfriend, who had two young kids, for nine months. They had a big fight because he kept doing something that upset her.<\/p>\n<p>She asked people on Reddit if she was overreacting. People on Reddit shared their thoughts about her boyfriend.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7182\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/416fb95bda843109fbc3cdb8fa1cd4a21a22a5c1c5cfea2a29e10ed2c9fbf1a8.jpg?resize=640%2C426&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/416fb95bda843109fbc3cdb8fa1cd4a21a22a5c1c5cfea2a29e10ed2c9fbf1a8.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/416fb95bda843109fbc3cdb8fa1cd4a21a22a5c1c5cfea2a29e10ed2c9fbf1a8.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/416fb95bda843109fbc3cdb8fa1cd4a21a22a5c1c5cfea2a29e10ed2c9fbf1a8.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/416fb95bda843109fbc3cdb8fa1cd4a21a22a5c1c5cfea2a29e10ed2c9fbf1a8.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>The woman worried about her behavior because she did it in front of her boyfriend\u2019s kids. He said she was selfish for not thinking about them.<\/p>\n<p>She explained that his children enjoyed going to restaurants, so they did it once a week. But every time they went, her boyfriend conveniently forgot his card at home.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7183\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/3e89f14f7f1c6343083825612df2c2002a1017a7dfc7fba7fd909c42970e3003.jpg?resize=640%2C427&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/3e89f14f7f1c6343083825612df2c2002a1017a7dfc7fba7fd909c42970e3003.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/3e89f14f7f1c6343083825612df2c2002a1017a7dfc7fba7fd909c42970e3003.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/3e89f14f7f1c6343083825612df2c2002a1017a7dfc7fba7fd909c42970e3003.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/3e89f14f7f1c6343083825612df2c2002a1017a7dfc7fba7fd909c42970e3003.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Every time her boyfriend forgot his card, the woman had to pay for the meal. At first, it didn\u2019t bother her, but she ended up broke because she paid so many times in the past month.<\/p>\n<p>One night, after getting paid from her second job, they were going out to eat with his kids. Since she knew he often \u201cforgot\u201d his wallet, she texted him to remind him to bring it. He just laughed it off.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7184\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/54e650126b9909cc53bc17d3cf156fe87f380b84cecf64245b95e26cc41fbd2e.jpg?resize=640%2C427&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/54e650126b9909cc53bc17d3cf156fe87f380b84cecf64245b95e26cc41fbd2e.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/54e650126b9909cc53bc17d3cf156fe87f380b84cecf64245b95e26cc41fbd2e.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/54e650126b9909cc53bc17d3cf156fe87f380b84cecf64245b95e26cc41fbd2e.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/54e650126b9909cc53bc17d3cf156fe87f380b84cecf64245b95e26cc41fbd2e.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>When they got to the restaurant, her boyfriend\u2019s kids ordered a lot of expensive new items from the menu, which the woman found costly.<\/p>\n<p>Before they started eating, she asked her boyfriend if he had his wallet to make sure he didn\u2019t forget it again. When she asked, he looked surprised and started patting his pockets, searching for the wallet.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7185\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/af1d72a419be13f84420c6928084d5c599b2ac95b40643d233a1bd39389ae6c4.jpg?resize=640%2C426&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/af1d72a419be13f84420c6928084d5c599b2ac95b40643d233a1bd39389ae6c4.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/af1d72a419be13f84420c6928084d5c599b2ac95b40643d233a1bd39389ae6c4.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/af1d72a419be13f84420c6928084d5c599b2ac95b40643d233a1bd39389ae6c4.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/af1d72a419be13f84420c6928084d5c599b2ac95b40643d233a1bd39389ae6c4.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>After searching for his wallet for a bit, he looked at the woman with a guilty face and admitted, \u201cI must have left it in the other pair of jeans I was planning to wear.\u201d<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7186\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/994892d353bee71b516731d3d9b296244740be2838322fd6d30bc5749aa57e08.jpg?resize=640%2C427&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/994892d353bee71b516731d3d9b296244740be2838322fd6d30bc5749aa57e08.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/994892d353bee71b516731d3d9b296244740be2838322fd6d30bc5749aa57e08.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/994892d353bee71b516731d3d9b296244740be2838322fd6d30bc5749aa57e08.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/994892d353bee71b516731d3d9b296244740be2838322fd6d30bc5749aa57e08.jpg?resize=768%2C513&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>The woman\u2019s boyfriend asked her to pay for dinner this time, but she was fed up. She quickly gathered her stuff, ready to leave without eating.<\/p>\n<p>When her boyfriend saw her leaving, he asked what she was doing and where she was going. She said she wasn\u2019t going to pay for him and his kids again and walked out of the restaurant.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7187\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?resize=640%2C816&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?resize=803%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 803w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?resize=235%2C300&amp;ssl=1 235w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?resize=118%2C150&amp;ssl=1 118w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?resize=768%2C979&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/1a80de63ce04252dbb86f6e81e195f33d205daa6a7496245f60c05fc6b4fbe05.jpg?w=847&amp;ssl=1 847w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"816\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>Later, the woman\u2019s boyfriend called her and called her selfish for leaving him and his kids like that. She explained she wouldn\u2019t keep paying for them every time they went out because it wasn\u2019t fair.<\/p>\n<p>He yelled that he forgot his wallet and she didn\u2019t show any sympathy. He also said he had to cancel their food order and take his hungry kids home because he couldn\u2019t afford their meals.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7188\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/20ec5935c05c20df4045dc26b846cdb2f08ef31431e8f4d0d7041223d49b1d96.jpg?resize=640%2C426&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/20ec5935c05c20df4045dc26b846cdb2f08ef31431e8f4d0d7041223d49b1d96.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/20ec5935c05c20df4045dc26b846cdb2f08ef31431e8f4d0d7041223d49b1d96.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/20ec5935c05c20df4045dc26b846cdb2f08ef31431e8f4d0d7041223d49b1d96.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/20ec5935c05c20df4045dc26b846cdb2f08ef31431e8f4d0d7041223d49b1d96.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>The couple argued, and the woman\u2019s boyfriend said he needed to reconsider how she was treating his kids. He repeated that she was okay with letting them go hungry because she was selfish.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-7189\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/815ca03b1df6c5ef59f483f78d12d17c62bb41f5421627bfcd33645771c434f2.jpg?resize=640%2C426&amp;ssl=1\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/815ca03b1df6c5ef59f483f78d12d17c62bb41f5421627bfcd33645771c434f2.jpg?w=992&amp;ssl=1 992w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/815ca03b1df6c5ef59f483f78d12d17c62bb41f5421627bfcd33645771c434f2.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/815ca03b1df6c5ef59f483f78d12d17c62bb41f5421627bfcd33645771c434f2.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/positivityoflife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/815ca03b1df6c5ef59f483f78d12d17c62bb41f5421627bfcd33645771c434f2.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n<p>When she posted about it on Reddit, she said her boyfriend was still mad at her for leaving during dinner. People on Reddit commented, and most agreed that he was taking advantage of her.<\/p>\n<p>What do you think the woman should have done? Was it okay for her to leave her boyfriend and his kids after he forgot his wallet, or should she have paid for them and talked about it later?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A woman had been dating her boyfriend for a while when she noticed something happening every time they went out to eat. Eventually, she got fed up with it and decided to do something about how she felt. A 32-year-old woman had been dating her 39-year-old boyfriend, who had two young kids, for nine months. &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2454,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2453"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2455,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2453\/revisions\/2455"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2454"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}