{"id":4255,"date":"2025-04-20T21:20:25","date_gmt":"2025-04-20T21:20:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=4255"},"modified":"2025-04-20T21:20:43","modified_gmt":"2025-04-20T21:20:43","slug":"a-messy-moment-a-stronger-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=4255","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;A Messy Moment, A Stronger Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"td-post-content td-pb-padding-side\">\n<p>I was at the supermarket, juggling my crying 7-year-old son and my bags. A woman in line sighed loudly, then started filming me. As I walked out, she said, \u2019People like you should never have kids!\u2019 No one said a word. I was going to yell at her, but I froze when I saw my son.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_208977\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-208977\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-208977 size-full td-animation-stack-type0-2\" src=\"https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 996px) 100vw, 996px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618.jpg 996w, https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618-630x420.jpg 630w, https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/bunny-wp-pullzone-qbwibhia54.b-cdn.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/food-cart_1098-14618-681x454.jpg 681w\" alt=\"\" width=\"996\" height=\"664\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-208977\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">For illustrative purpose only<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>He was entirely covered in chocolate\u2014his clothes, face, and even hair. I was so overwhelmed with a month\u2019s worth of groceries and tasks I still needed to do that I didn\u2019t pay close attention to what my kid was doing. Turns out, while following me in the market, he was also eating and making a mess. Suddenly, he started to cry when he realized everyone was staring at us.<\/p>\n<p>I turned bright red and quickly carried him to the car. It\u2019s been 5 years, but I still think about that moment every time I step into a supermarket. At the time, I was mortified, but now I look back and give myself credit for raising three kids on my own while working full-time. As single moms, we should give ourselves more credit.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-11\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1732304\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<footer>\n<div class=\"td-post-source-tags td-pb-padding-side\"><\/div>\n<\/footer>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was at the supermarket, juggling my crying 7-year-old son and my bags. A woman in line sighed loudly, then started filming me. As I walked out, she said, \u2019People like you should never have kids!\u2019 No one said a word. I was going to yell at her, but I froze when I saw my &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4256,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4255","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4255","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4255"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4255\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4257,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4255\/revisions\/4257"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4256"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4255"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4255"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4255"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}