{"id":4762,"date":"2025-05-25T22:11:21","date_gmt":"2025-05-25T22:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=4762"},"modified":"2025-05-25T22:11:21","modified_gmt":"2025-05-25T22:11:21","slug":"users-asks-if-shes-the-ahole-for-calling-her-niece-pretty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=4762","title":{"rendered":"Users Asks If She&#8217;s The Ahole for Calling Her Niece Pretty**"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"126\" data-end=\"346\">A user shared that during a family weekend, her 7-year-old niece Zara asked if she looked pretty while playing dress-up. The Redditor said yes, which thrilled Zara \u2014 but angered her stepsister Kate, Zara\u2019s mother.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"348\" data-end=\"649\">Kate, who has long struggled with beauty standards and now practices \u201caesthetic neutrality,\u201d has asked that no one comment on appearances \u2014 including her daughter\u2019s. She told the OP that calling Zara pretty was harmful because \u201cshe isn\u2019t good-looking\u201d and that lying would only set her up for failure.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"651\" data-end=\"867\">Now Kate is upset and may not let the OP babysit again. The OP wonders if she was wrong. Reactions online mostly sided with the OP, saying Zara deserves kindness and that Kate\u2019s approach could harm her daughter more.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A user shared that during a family weekend, her 7-year-old niece Zara asked if she looked pretty while playing dress-up. The Redditor said yes, which thrilled Zara \u2014 but angered her stepsister Kate, Zara\u2019s mother. Kate, who has long struggled with beauty standards and now practices \u201caesthetic neutrality,\u201d has asked that no one comment on &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4763,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4762"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4762\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4764,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4762\/revisions\/4764"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}