So I\u2019m (30M) talking to my wife (30F) yesterday, and she jokingly mentions how our son (3M) is clearly going to be a ladies man because he is CONSTANTLY trying to find ways to snuggle and fondle boobs\/butts. In response, I say of course, what guy doesn\u2019t? Heck, I even know many straight women and gay men who appreciate feeling some nice boobs or a good butt.<\/p>\n
She then tells me we can never be sure, however, because she\u2019s been attracted to women and if it\u2019s genetic he could be attracted to men too when he\u2019s older. I. Was. Floored.<\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been married for 8 years, known each other since elementary school, so we\u2019ve had some pretty deep conversations. We\u2019ve also had some very\u2026 Detailed discussions of what we\u2019re into, since we\u2019re both pretty big on communication. I can\u2019t help but feel like this is a huge secret she\u2019s been keeping from me? I realize this is selfish in a way, and I can\u2019t say I\u2019m \u201cupset\u201d at her for it, but it\u2019s just such a shocking revelation\u2026<\/p>\n
I had to pry, of course, when I realized she was serious, and she explained that she discovered it in high school, had a few one-offs with girls WE BOTH KNOW, and has had a few crushes over the years but never really pursued anything, especially once we were together. I told her I couldn\u2019t believe she\u2019s kept this from me for so long. She said it\u2019s not something she\u2019s totally comfortable talking about, and I jokingly said \u201cBut think of all the fun we could\u2019ve had in college?\u201d Which she laughed at and said, \u201cTrust me, there were plenty of opportunities I was too scared to mention to you back then.\u201d I laughed it off and we went about our day, but now the curiosity is eating away at me. I don\u2019t want to pry more, because she mentioned how it makes her uncomfortable to talk about, but I know myself and there is no way I will be able to just \u201clet this go.\u201d<\/p>\n
Where the hell do I go from here? lol.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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