{"id":5010,"date":"2025-05-28T09:25:42","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T09:25:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=5010"},"modified":"2025-05-28T09:25:42","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T09:25:42","slug":"my-boyfriend-swore-hed-never-watch-prn-but-i-just-found-months-of-lies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=5010","title":{"rendered":"My Boyfriend Swore He\u2019d Never Watch P::::rn\u2014But I Just Found Months of Lies"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve been together for 8 months. I\u2019m 18F and my boyfriend is 18M. From the very start of our relationship, we both agreed that watching explicit content while in a committed relationship is cheating. It was a clear boundary we set together<\/em>, and he always reinforced it. He\u2019d say things like, \u201cWhy would I watch that when I have you?\u201d and talk about how degrading it is. He even told me his friend was \u201cdisgusting\u201d for watching it while in a relationship. I believed him\u2014because he looked me in the eyes and swore he would never<\/em> cross that line.<\/p>\n

A few days ago, I came across his old search history. He insisted it was from over a year ago and said he hadn\u2019t looked at anything since we started dating. We had a long conversation, and he doubled down\u2014saying he would never betray me like that. He told me he wanted me to trust him, that he respected our boundaries, and that it\u2019s not something he agrees with at all.<\/p>\n

But something felt off. My gut told me there was more.<\/p>\n

This morning, I decided to check again. What I found shattered me. There was months\u2019 worth of recent history\u2014proof that he has<\/em> been watching it, regularly, for at least the last 3 months. I stopped scrolling because it was already too much to process.<\/p>\n

I feel completely betrayed. The lies hurt more than the act itself. He\u2019s been reassuring me this whole time, talking about trust and respect, while doing the exact thing he swore he never would. We didn\u2019t just casually disagree on this\u2014we made it a mutual boundary<\/strong>, one he brought up constantly<\/em>, reinforcing how wrong it was.<\/p>\n

When I confronted him, he said he was \u201cin a dark place\u201d and \u201cdidn\u2019t know where else to go.\u201d Then he told a friend it was \u201ctemptation he couldn\u2019t resist\u201d and that he made a mistake. But the thing is\u2014it wasn\u2019t one mistake. He had months<\/strong> to realize what he was doing, and he never stopped. He never told me. He just kept lying.<\/p>\n

And no\u2014it\u2019s not about being insecure. It\u2019s about trust. It\u2019s about being lied to, every day, by someone who claimed to share the same values as me.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what to do. I don\u2019t want to lose him, but I also don\u2019t know if I can ever come back from this. I feel stuck. Any advice would help.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve been together for 8 months. I\u2019m 18F and my boyfriend is 18M. From the very start of our relationship, we both agreed that watching explicit content while in a committed relationship is cheating. It was a clear boundary we set together, and he always reinforced it. He\u2019d say things like, \u201cWhy would I watch …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5011,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5010"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5010\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5012,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5010\/revisions\/5012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5011"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}