{"id":6022,"date":"2025-06-30T13:51:02","date_gmt":"2025-06-30T13:51:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=6022"},"modified":"2025-06-30T13:51:02","modified_gmt":"2025-06-30T13:51:02","slug":"my-boyfriend-wants-a-paternity-test-for-our-newborn-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=6022","title":{"rendered":"My Boyfriend Wants a Paternity Test for Our Newborn Daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"136\" data-end=\"322\">After being together for 7.5 years, my boyfriend and I recently welcomed our daughter. I\u2019m a nurse, and he\u2019s a surgeon. Since I\u2019m currently not working, I stay home while he supports us.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"324\" data-end=\"613\">To my shock, he asked for a paternity test to confirm the baby is his. He said he just wants to be 100% sure and doesn\u2019t want to face surprises like in movies. However, he also said that because I\u2019m home alone a lot and he\u2019s rarely around, he doesn\u2019t know what I\u2019m doing\u2014implying distrust.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"615\" data-end=\"757\">I\u2019ve always been faithful despite some of his past mistakes, which I forgave. He even told his coworkers about the test, which hurt me deeply.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"759\" data-end=\"886\">If he wants to pay for the test, I\u2019m fine with it, but the way he\u2019s framing it makes me feel like I\u2019m the one being unfaithful.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"888\" data-end=\"994\">Many people say this is his projection of his own behavior and that he\u2019s the one who struggles with trust.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After being together for 7.5 years, my boyfriend and I recently welcomed our daughter. I\u2019m a nurse, and he\u2019s a surgeon. Since I\u2019m currently not working, I stay home while he supports us. To my shock, he asked for a paternity test to confirm the baby is his. He said he just wants to be &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6023,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6022"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6022\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6024,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6022\/revisions\/6024"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6023"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}