{"id":7087,"date":"2025-08-21T13:30:43","date_gmt":"2025-08-21T13:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=7087"},"modified":"2025-08-21T13:30:43","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T13:30:43","slug":"my-entitled-roommate-ditched-rent-for-her-boyfriend-left-her-stuff-and-ghosted-me-so-i-made-my-own-plans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wildwondertube.com\/?p=7087","title":{"rendered":"My Entitled Roommate Ditched Rent for Her Boyfriend, Left Her Stuff, and Ghosted Me \u2013 So I Made My Own Plans"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"108\" data-end=\"338\">When my roommate Milly vanished overnight to move in with her boyfriend, I assumed she\u2019d at least handle the rent like an adult. Two months later, she showed up pounding on my door, screaming about changed locks and missing stuff.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"340\" data-end=\"662\">When I first moved in, the landlord said they needed one more roommate\u2014enter Milly. I was relieved. Living alone seemed scary, and she seemed sweet at first\u2014asking about my day, watching movies together. But she never bought basics like toilet paper or detergent. She\u2019d use my things and promise to replace them\u2014never did.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"664\" data-end=\"929\">Rent was the same story. Always late, always promising next week, and always playing the \u201cwe\u2019re friends\u201d guilt card. Dishes piled up, trash overflowed, and I was the only one cleaning. I tried talking to her, and she\u2019d nod and say she\u2019d improve\u2014but nothing changed.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"931\" data-end=\"1206\">Then, once our lease went month-to-month, Milly disappeared. No warning, just gone. I later found out she\u2019d moved in with her boyfriend. I was left covering all the rent. When I finally texted her, she replied, \u201cWell, I\u2019m not living there, so why should I pay?\u201d Then\u2014silence.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1208\" data-end=\"1427\">I worked extra shifts, drained my savings, and still heard nothing. Even her mom brushed me off. By July, I\u2019d had enough. I texted Milly a final warning: respond by the 1st or I\u2019d assume she was gone for good. No reply.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1429\" data-end=\"1612\">So, with help from friends, I packed up her things\u2014donated the basic stuff and saved what looked sentimental. The landlord changed the locks. Milly was off the lease, and it was done.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1614\" data-end=\"1630\">Or so I thought.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1632\" data-end=\"2003\">Three days later, she came back, screaming about the locks. I calmly told her she hadn\u2019t lived there\u2014or paid rent\u2014in two months. She broke down, sobbing about nowhere to go, begging for clothes and a shower. I told her what was left was in the closet. She flipped when she realized her grandma\u2019s wedding dress was gone\u2014hidden in an unmarked, dusty box I thought was junk.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2005\" data-end=\"2139\">She exploded\u2014screaming, threatening police and lawsuits. But I stayed calm. I had everything documented. Her silence had consequences.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2141\" data-end=\"2258\">She left screaming, \u201cThis isn\u2019t over!\u201d But it was. She ghosted me, not the other way around. I just made it official.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When my roommate Milly vanished overnight to move in with her boyfriend, I assumed she\u2019d at least handle the rent like an adult. Two months later, she showed up pounding on my door, screaming about changed locks and missing stuff. When I first moved in, the landlord said they needed one more roommate\u2014enter Milly. 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