A 25-year-old R posted on r/AITA asking if he’s wrong for not knowing how to cook. He recently moved in with his fiancée, who works part-time and handles most of the cooking. When she asked him to cook instead of ordering takeout, he refused, saying he’d just use Uber Eats.
He explained that his parents always did everything for him and his mom told him to find a woman who would cook and clean. His fiancée was frustrated, pointing out that takeout is unhealthy, expensive, and she already handles most chores.
When he suggested buying a dishwasher instead of helping more, she called him out. Commenters overwhelmingly said YTA, accusing him of weaponized incompetence and expecting his partner to carry the household load.
