You should not ignore these signs

Jodie, 33, had been married to Michael for five years. Although their relationship seemed happy, it began with a red flag: a surprisingly cheap engagement ring from a man who had always been generous. He brushed it off with a philosophical remark about materialism.
Years later, after a rough patch and a heated argument, Jodie gave in to a gut feeling and read Michael’s diary. What she found shocked her — he had written that he hated her and even wished for her death during her recent illness. Feeling scared, she took their daughter and left, staying with a friend and seeking help from a therapist and lawyer.
Despite warm texts from Michael afterward, saying he missed her and wanted to work things out, Jodie felt torn. They eventually met in person, had an honest conversation, and decided to try to fix their marriage through family therapy. Jodie remains uncertain, but they’re both committed to rebuilding trust.