I Banned My Niece From My House — Now Everyone Thinks I’m the Villain
Lizi’s 12-year-old niece repeatedly disrespected her rules, culminating in stealing and breaking her work iPad. When Lizi told her brother that the niece was no longer welcome, he dismissed her concerns, saying “she’s just a child.” Her sister-in-law accused Lizi of being too harsh and causing family division.
Lizi wonders whether she should hold firm on her boundaries or seek peace for the family’s sake.
Advice highlights:
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Boundaries protect your well-being and must be respected—even within family.
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A calm, honest conversation with the niece could help uncover deeper issues.
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Don’t let guilt push you to tolerate disrespect—asking for respect isn’t being a villain.
