Janice, a retired grandmother, wanted to enjoy her free time while still being part of her grandson’s life. At first, she agreed to babysit occasionally for her daughter-in-law. But soon, it became daily childcare, housework, and meal prep—basically running their household.
When the family planned a vacation, they expected Janice to take care of everything while they relaxed—without even asking if she could. Instead of giving in, Janice booked her own vacation to the same destination, with no babysitting or chores, letting the family know she was available for occasional meet-ups.
This move taught her daughter-in-law a lesson: boundaries are essential. Janice reminded everyone that helping family shouldn’t come at the cost of one’s own well-being, and it’s okay to step back while still staying involved in her grandchild’s life.
