Mimi, an HR professional, was asked by her boss to serve coffee to guests. She refused, saying it wasn’t part of her job. Her boss snapped back, “I pay you, so I can ask you to do anything.” Mimi felt embarrassed but stood her ground.

Many commenters agree Mimi was right to set boundaries—HR roles don’t include being a personal assistant or barista. Respect and clear job roles matter. It’s important to assert yourself calmly and keep your professional dignity.