I cooked for hours — enough food for fifty guests.
It was my friend’s baby shower, and I wanted everything to be perfect.
Then, the night before, she texted:
“Sorry, there’s not enough space. You can still drop off the food though.”
I just stared at my phone.
She wanted my effort — not my presence.
So I replied, calmly:
“Thanks for letting me know. Unfortunately, I won’t be able to bring the food either.”
The next day, they ran out of food.
And I felt… peace.
Because friendship isn’t about convenience — it’s about respect.
Never let your kindness cost your dignity.
People who value you will want you there, not just what you bring. ❤️
