Finding Understanding at the Family Table đ˝ď¸

At my husbandâs family gathering yesterday, I quickly noticed â there wasnât a single thing I could eat. I whispered to him that I was starving. He smiled softly and said, âIâll eat quickly, then weâll head out.â
I tried to stay calm while everyone else enjoyed their meals. Then, his aunt noticed and kindly offered me a burger.
âOh, I donât eat meat,â I said.
She froze. Then, almost embarrassed, admitted, âWe thought it was just a phase.â
That moment explained everything â no one had made something for me because they didnât understand. For a second, I felt hurt⌠but I also saw honesty.
So I explained why my choice mattered, how easy it was to include one plant-based dish. They listened. The tension faded.
By the end of the night, his aunt promised, âNext time, Iâll make something special for you.â
And that small promise meant everything.
Because inclusion doesnât always come from big gestures â
sometimes, it starts with one conversation around the dinner table. đĽ