Tessa, 44, is raising four children while caring for her aging father, 72. As his health declined, she asked him to help cover the costs of in-home care, rather than expecting her to provide everything for free. Her father reacted angrily, insisting it was her duty as his child to care for him without question.
Later that day, Tessa discovered a shocking surprise: her father had independently signed a nursing home agreement and arranged for his belongings to be moved, leaving part of the house empty—including sentimental items. When confronted, he accused her of being selfish and unwilling to help.
Despite Tessa feeling overwhelmed and justified in asking for support, her father had made the decision for her, leaving her to grapple with the consequences and the unfairness of the situation.
